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"Isn't your life kind of a porno???" a mom friend joked via text. "Some days for sure," I replied — yeah, if the porno included children yelling and banging on the bedroom door every 10 minutes, or a toddler stumbling into the living room to find you and your spouse in flagrante delicto.

Welcome to my sexy, messy life.

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a kink and a prayer

Confessions of a Pastor’s Wife

A Kink and a Prayer is a collection of personal essays by a progressive pastor's wife and mother of three who is trying to keep it real about sex and relationship-care. I will make you laugh and blush with the steamy details of how we are keeping the sex alive and fresh in our 20-year marriage.

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